I've always imagined that love was a symbol of trust, forgiveness, and feeling like you are worth something. How come I feel as if the magnificent process which we call love, skipped me as if I were nothing but an old crumpled up piece of paper that has lost all meaning.
Am I worth it?
You men claim that personality is key and that it takes a good and gentle heart to captivate yours, yet you become silent and are suddenly filled with lackluster when it comes to a beautiful soul and not a beautiful face.
Am I worth it?
I have a great heart, a great soul, and a great beautiful mind but you can't seem to get over my waist size. Why? You say there's more to us women than our beauty, our figure, or our curvaceous booty. Right when I try to open up my heart to you, you begin to close yours with the fact that you might actually be falling in love with a "5", when everyone thought that your type was a "10."
Am I worth it?
Behind closed doors you constantly remind me that I am beautiful, that I am worth it, and more impotantly that I am yours. What girl wouldn't feel like giving you her precious gift that no other soul has entered because she thought that you were true. But to no avail, when it's time to open those closed doors for the eyes to see, you quickly deny any form of relation, communication and you surely didn't show me any commiseration.
But, I thought I was worth it right? Was it something I said, or something I did? Why can't I be loved, why can't I be held and adored like everyone else? What did I do to not be wanted? Please free me from this continuous cycle that only seems to happen to me. For I may not be beautiful, but I AM WORTH IT.
By: Chrysta Gary
2. Fellas, why do you think females feel the way that they do when it comes to not feeling worthy?
3. Ladies, what do males do to make you feel like you aren't worthy enough?
I think a woman's worth...*anyone's* worth comes from within and nobody can give that to you or take it away. Heartbreak is part of life, the same as joy or any other emotion or experience, but if you have confidence and a sense of self worth, then you will be able to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back on with the adventure of life. I think Maya Angelou nails that sense of inner self worth with her poem, "Phenomenal Woman":
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When I got my heart broken I was really hurt, I didn't like anyone that associated with my ex and I believe I was bitter. However, when I look back at the old me in the relationship with my ex. I grew up so much and The person I am today is so much better than I was back then. I became stronger and more wiser. I learned that every thing doesn't need a reaction.
ReplyDeleteA man makes a women feel unworthy when they continuously lie to her. Guys don't understand that a simple just telling the truth can change everything. Telling the truth just shows that you care about her feelings but doing the same mistake repeatedly is no MISTAKE it's a CHOICE.
Past relationships have led me to believe that you will never know someone truly unless they are in display of others or pressured situations. They can play like they are mature all the way up until they feel they lose control, then they show true colors. I think up until you turn 25 you are still finding what you like in this world. Right now every body not only wants the girl but wants the girl everybody else would want if they could. That is simply childish but most of us have not grown from that type of gratification. I can see how this is a problem for girls that are not in the "it"( the 10s) type of girls. I believe it is natural to feel unappreciated. The crazy thing is some guys do truly appreciate personalities and such but cant stand society thinking of him as settling for anything lower than a "6+". It is sad but true. As we grow into men and see all type of girls, no matter shape or looks, but as beautiful women with unique characteristics. That is where true love is.
ReplyDeleteI’ve had my heart broken before and it has molded me into a different person. It has made me cautious of helping and opening up to females.
ReplyDeleteI think females feel unworthy because they have always been suppressed and men have been placed above women in society.
When I was heart broken, I did not know what to do and thought it was the end of the world. I realized that no one can define me or make me feel unworthy. I learned that sometimes things will not work in your favor all the time and that's okay. It is okay to let go and learn. One particular person or some may not see your worth, but someone out there will. It just takes time and patience.
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ReplyDeleteWhen I went through my first heart break I was really hurt. I felt like I wasn't worth anything. Looking back, I can say that I have truly grown up and have become a woman who is more independent. On the negative side I believe that it also has changed me into a more private person and I tend to push people away. A man makes a woman feel unworthy when he isn't being loyal and honest. It's ultimately up to the woman if she decides to let that break her or make her.
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