Going to NCAT, you hear a lot of gossip some that may be true and some that may be halfway true. Recently I heard a story about a male (a associate of mine) sexually involved with a female he hasn't known that long. The female is slightly promiscuous and she is sexually active. However the devastating fact of it all is that the female had two std's which was chlamydia and Gonorrhea. The male did not know that she had these std's and it is possible he might have contracted them from her. Personally I would be very upset if my partner had an std and did not talk to me about it first. Although it does take two people to tango. Meaning take care of yourself first, many students believe because we are in college they will not contact a disease if the significant other appears clean. Many college kids who have been with their partner for awhile no longer feel the need to use condoms especially if the female is on birth control. Many college students also receive oral sex more willingly without as much caution not realizing the dangers of how some std's are transmitted.
My questions are:
Whether you have known this potential sex partner for awhile or you have just met, do you ask them if they have/had any sexually transmitted diseases? and do you feel comfortable doing so?
Would you be mad if the person you were involved with gave you a sexually transmitted disease although you never asked them?
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