Dear Men,

I noticed lately that guys tell woman that they don’t like when we wear weave or make-up. Many men prefer natural they usually say they enjoy our natural beauty than us wearing make-up and weaves. Many men think that women that wear make-up or wear weave in their hair, she must be either ugly or she doesn’t have hair. Which is not the case, many woman wear make-up because it makes them feel more beautiful when they go out. No girl wants to have her average stay in her room natural face on when she goes out and wants to have fun. Make-up is fun to do in a way you can learn different ways that work for yourself. Make-up gives the woman the power to be artistic in her own way on her on face. And guys don’t understand that. Of course we look different under makeup, but that shouldn’t give a guy a reason to not embrace a woman when she wears make-up and wears weave. Many women have blemishes on their and in their case wearing make-up is to boost their confidence. But when guys talk about how they’re going to “take a girl swimming before their first date” doesn’t make woman want to not wear makeup but it lowers the confidence of a women. To know that her blemishes will never be accepted by a man. Some men also don’t like when woman don’t wear weave. Myself have been in this situation before. Men don’t know half the reasons women wear weaves. But here is two

1.      Many women wear weaves for a protective hair style to not damage their own hair

2.      Many women simply don’t feel like doing their hair

Wearing weaves for women is so easier. Some men think that if you wear weave then you must not have hair, which is not the case. Women should be able to wear make-up and weave and still be embraced by a man as if she wasn’t. Many men believe the “NATURAL LOOK” is easy, but in reality its difficult. 1. It depends on your skin and hair. There are many factors for break outs on a women skin and one of them could be from going natural.  When you have natural hair you have to maintain maintenance on it such as making sure it’s clean, make sure its moisturize, but not to oily. Many women have to put heat to their natural hair which causes it to break off, which eventually leads in her in wearing weaves. Putting too much oil in your hair cause you to get pimples from too much oil touching your face.

Men may think being natural is easier and satisfying, but believe it or not the women’s appearance is high maintenance itself. Men should embrace women by their flaws and embrace a woman when she has make-up on and wears weave. Us women don’t wear make-up and weaves for the men, but the satisfying feeling that we get when we know we look good.